By Bill Betzler

Two weeks ago, I went on a men's retreat. Followed along the IRON JOHN narrative of years ago - male initiation, male wounds, male grief, male bonding, male transformation. It was OK for me. Did have opportunity to say out loud to all 35 guys what my core wound was: As a child I was a sexual object. I listened to all the others. There were a few deaths of children or parents or spouses. By far the largest number of wounds had to do w/ feelings of inadequacy & in that awareness that their lives weren't working. M

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Talk With Your Enemy? Dialogue about Dialogue

By Alan Levin

…I have to admit to being a slow learner in being able to talk with people who disagree with me politically, especially if they are conservative or right-wing. A helpful teaching for me is that we are not our ideas. I am not my beliefs and therefore neither is anyone else. People are far more than any particular idea that they happen to believe. This is especially true of political thinking involving abstractions, complex sets of ideas that often have little to do with the deeper values and intentions that move a person through life….